Handling your emotions during financial problems
- 3 Mar 2023
- Edited 22 Nov 2023
- 2 min
- In trouble
Your turnover might have fallen in recent months. Perhaps you had to temporarily close your business, or decided to keep the doors closed yourself. Such events can make you feel powerless. You might feel ashamed, or your pride might get in the way. Above all, you might just feel incredibly frustrated. How do you handle these common emotions?
These emotions are often linked to certain beliefs, says Lea Donselaar van Koers, business psychologist at Koers. Together with Hans Litjens, Netherlands Chamber of Commerce KVK advisor for businesses in trouble, and wedding florist Claire van der Velden, she shares useful tips. Read about what you can do and who can help you with the 3 most common emotions in times of crisis: powerlessness, shame, and frustration.
Uncertainty about the future of your business can make you feel powerless. This can make it difficult to look at your own financial situation objectively. An independent, fresh perspective is exactly what you need.
"If the financial overview is lacking, you are mopping the water off," argues KVK adviser Litjens. "Often you can't properly assess what steps to take. Therefore, discuss your concerns with others so that you get a better overview. This is not easy, but by doing so you will take the first step."
Accept the situation and the emotions that come with it. That gives peace of mind. Litjens advises not to get stuck in the old situation. "The old path is no longer always the right one. Follow a structured roadmap or engage an adviser to get a clear picture."
Shame and fear of failure
If you are dealing with financial problems, you may be blaming yourself and feeling ashamed or guilty. Are you ashamed of the situation? Do you fear getting a bad reputation or are you feeling guilty towards yourself, your loved ones, or your employees? Here is what you can do:
"Entrepreneurs often work with goals. When you fail to achieve them, it may feel like you are failing. Go over what goals you set. Are these realistic? Aren't you setting the bar too high? This is more likely to happen than to fail. Look at the situation realistically, then you will feel less like you have failed." Litjens also advises focusing on your successes. Remember that you are your company's most valuable asset. "Without you, no business," he says.
When you have a lot of worries, it can lead to mental health issues. Donselaar advises seeking help in time. "That's quite a step. You are convinced that you should be able to cope on your own and don't want to show weakness. Realise that these emotions don't always go away by themselves. Talk to someone close to you and look for help together."
Tackle psychological complaints
Do you experience psychological complaints, such as poor sleep, worry, or feeling down because of your financial problems? Do you want to discuss these confidentially? Various professional organisations offer a listening ear.
Help with your business
If you are looking for advice and help for your business, contact the following organisations:
- KVK Advice Team
The KVK Advice Team listens and gives appropriate advice. If necessary, they refer you to other organisations. Telephone 088 585 22 22 on weekdays between 08:30 and 17:00.
- Entrepreneurs sounding board
Former entrepreneurs, managers and specialists with a specific field of expertise join forces in the Entrepreneurs Sounding . Telephone 070 349 0600 on weekdays between 08:30 and 16:30.
- Your municipality
Your debts are mounting and you see no way out. Debt restructuring may be a solution for you. If you have financial problems and are looking for help, contact the municipality where you live. They will work with you to make a plan that can get you out of trouble. Municipalities have a legal duty to help entrepreneurs with debts. Sometimes they outsource this to an external debt assistance organisation. No (additional) costs are attached to help via the municipality. They also support you with schemes that may offer you relief, such as an amicable settlement or debt restructuring. Call, email or visit the municipality where you live, and tell them you are looking for debt assistance.